Effective Diaper Domination
Of the many ways to capture and dominate your favorite slave, the use of diapers
offers unique potential. Unlike traditional bondage equipment, which cannot
usually be worn in public, diapers are generally hidden and if discovered
(intentionally or by accident) are presumed to be present due to medical
necessity. Therefore there is considerably more flexibility with diaper bondage
and less chance of undue attention from the authorities.
Traditional bondage serves to restrict a slave's mobility. Since it is in the
very nature of human beings to move, each time a slave attempts to find a more
comfortable position, she is reminded that her master has removed this privilege
and that she is under her master's control. But aside from having been
restricted, the slave's sense of self is generally intact. If invasive devices
such as dildos are used, the slave may feel penetrated by the master but this
effect is limited in its duration by bodily functions, among other
Diaper bondage is unique in that while the slave's body is not normally
penetrated (but this can be added easily) her sense of self is under attack.
Toilet training is a cornerstone of our psychological processes. So much has
been written about its ramifications for adult life that little need be
mentioned here. The effect of diaper bondage is to defeat toilet training,
almost always against the slave's will. The injunctions against wetting and/or
soiling oneself are the strongest known to us. Therefore, when a slave is
confined to diapers for an extended period, these injunctions are confronted
within the subconscious of the slave's mind, causing anxiety, turmoil and
identification of the master with a parent figure.
This serves the master's interests well. The parent figure in our psyche is a
giver of comfort, nourishment, and a dispenser of discipline. Since most
children learn that rebellion against the parent's authority is futile; a child
posture in the slave can be pleasing for the master. One of the objectives of
effective diaper domination is to use discomfort and embarrassment to push the
slave to a point where he or she will appeal the master's use of diapers.
A slave in diapers is no less dependent on the master than if she were in
bondage. As soon as the diapers are pinned and the plastic panties in place the
slave realizes that he or she has been deprived of the most basic and private
decision of adult life -- when and how to relieve oneself. It will not, at
first, occur to the slave that attempting to refrain from elimination will be
futile, that it is the master's plan and desire that the slave suffer forced
incontinence. The slave will, instead, be initially concerned with the strange
feelings of the diaper such as the bulk between the legs which alters her walk
and the growing heat caused by the plastic panties. The second concern of the
slave will be his or her appearance. We are an image-based society and the slave
will have cultivated a personal image, which includes some degree of vanity.
Forcing an obviously diapered adult to mingle with the public forces the victim
to re-evaluate her image, causing more anxiety and distress. The master may take
some assurance that anyone who guesses the cause of the bulges under the slave's
clothing will presume an innocent reason, but the slave has no such comfort.
Every strange look, every whispered comment will torture the slave with the
suspicion that someone has guessed that he or she is wearing diapers and
therefore less of an adult.
The most common objection to the use of diapers is that the slave's genitals are
bundled out of reach and use by the master. While this is true, it is only an
obstacle when the session is intended to remain indoors. As soon as privacy is
lost, so too is the opportunity to fondle the slave intimately. Diaper bondage
offers the prospect of intense psychological effect on the slave during
intervals when even traditional bondage would be impractical.
Males and females react differently to the prospect of being forcibly confined
in diapers. While this likely has its roots in male vs. female ego, there are
some simpler explanations. Males depend on being able to see their genitals to
confirm their presence and state. Women's genitals are hidden and she must rely
on internal sensations to judge their condition, therefore it is not a new
sensation for her to be denied visual contact with her organs. A second point is
that all women of childbearing age are, in essence, incontinent for several days
each month. The menstrual cycle is a closely guarded subject amongst females who
are often raised with injunctions to the effect that they are not to give any
indication that they are menstruating, discuss the subject with men, or
otherwise acknowledge it as a normal bodily function. "Discretion" is the key
word as the woman chooses the pads or tampons necessary to preserve her
clothing. A recent tampon advertisement criticized napkins for "feeling like
diapers", and no doubt this is true, considering that both disposable diapers
and feminine pads must feel alike to the sensitive vulva. Therefore for a woman
the prospect of being diapered offers little novelty. She is used to having to
care for an uncontrolled release of fluid from her body and taking great pains
to conceal the activity from everyone else. This helps to explain that female
diaper fetishists are rare (but much sought after by males of the same
Males lack this training in incontinence and its camouflage. They also lack the
convenience of full skirts to hide the bulges under clothing. Even the slimmest
diaper on a male will cause obvious changes to his outline. And since, as has
been demonstrated, this outline is a key element of his self-perception, it is
here that the master begins to make inroads in domination.
Masters wishing to obtain the basic necessities for diaper domination will not
have to look far. There is a wide range of adult disposable diapers available at
most drug stores. While effective for their intended use, such diapers are
usually not absorbent or thick enough to serve well in diaper domination.
Plastic pants can be had from medical supply stores and are a definite necessity
both for their practical and psychological properties. Disposable adult diapers
may be supplemented with toddler disposables whose plastic backing has been
punctured to permit drainage into the adult (outer) diaper. This adds extra bulk
between the legs, which is necessary to provide the discomfort that is a
fundamental element of the process.
Cloth diapers are more easily made than purchased. Generally about four can be
made from cutting up a single size flannel bed sheet. Normal baby pins can be
used but some purists purchase women's kilt pins to provide a larger, more
babyish fastener. Two toddler disposables, taped end to end, and placed inside
the cloth diaper increase absorbency and offer protection from soiling.
Whatever the materials used the primary objective for the master in diapers on
his slave are discomfort, visibility, efficiency, and security.
Discomfort serves to remind the diapered slave that he or she is indeed in
diapers and will, sooner or later, be forced to use them for eliminations. All
diapers are uncomfortable to an adult unused to wearing them but this discomfort
can be increased through a variety of simple measures.
The first discomfort enhancer is bulk, especially between the legs. This can be
accomplished by adding baby diapers to the crotch of the adult diaper (cloth or
disposable respectively) thus forming a soaker panel which is rigid enough not
to be compressed by the victim's walking action. In fact, it will force the
slave to walk slightly bow-legged in a manner best described as a waddle. The
slave will be unable to escape this pressure between the legs, which in the male
especially can be quite uncomfortable. When walking the slave's inner thighs
will chafe on the diaper and when sitting the extra bulk will be pressed against
her genitals. This latter effect is especially useful for long trips on public
transit when the slave has no choice but to sit and endure whatever her master
has put on her.
The second discomfort enhancer is heat. The presence of plastic pants will cause
a trapping of body heat and the resulting perspiration will make a diaper damp
and uncomfortable. The amount of heat retained can be increased by doubling up
with disposable diapers and adding extra pairs of plastic pants. These measures,
in turn, can be amplified by coating the diaper area with Vaseline, which
impedes perspiration. Consideration may also be given to restrictive clothing
such as girdles. It should be noted that most disposable adult diapers become
very itchy when worn for extended periods. Therefore extended confinement in
them, especially with some of the other measures discussed, will have your slave
squirming and begging for relief within hours, whether she has wet and soiled or
The remaining discomfort enhancers are used occasionally, for special sessions
or punishments. Mustard plaster on the rear cheeks is effective as a long-term
punishment since the resulting burn will last several days whether the slave is
diapered or not. Shaving the pubic hair is favored as a routine discomfort
enhancement since the slave is unable to scratch at the predictable itch and is
usually forbidden to touch her diapers and plastic pants. Butt plugs, especially
those with harnesses are often used to create a background haze of discomfort
and forestall soiling when it is not desired. A slave diapered in this manner
will appear dazed and distracted, which may attract more attention from the
public. Such devices are especially useful when the slave may be required to
change her own diapers on an aircraft, thus providing herself some limited
comfort while being constantly reminded that the master is still in control.
A master's second consideration when confining his slave to diapers is
visibility. While adult diaper manufacturers have worked strenuously to make
their products less obtrusive, these efforts must be defeated if the slave is to
suffer humiliation in public. In summer this is often accomplished by the use of
shorts that are too small to cover all of the plastic pants. Thus the slave must
confront the reality that her secret is always open to viewing should anyone
look closely enough. In winter the slave should be forced to wear slacks that
allow the diaper bulge to show prominently and no sports jacket should be
Diaper visibility in female slaves requires different strategies. Skirts that
are short enough to allow brief glimpses of the bulging plastic panties are fine
for summer. Shorts with very wide leg openings are also useful, especially if
the slave is to be taken shopping for shoes, in which situation the clerk would
get an unimpeded view of her diapered crotch. In winter the girl should be
forced to wear a garter belt and stockings under a skirt that is both too tight
and slit too high to conceal either her garters or her plastic panties. If the
stockings are seamed, with reinforced heels, she will attract a lot of attention
from males, to her distress. High heels are a must at all times for female
slaves and may be used with effect on males when in private.
When at home or in circumstances of reasonable privacy, both male and female
slaves should not be permitted any covering below the waist. The
shirt-and-diapers uniform is common to toddlers because it offers the ability to
instantly discern the condition of the diaper, no less is true of the diaper
slave. A secondary benefit is that the slave is forced to see his or her diapers
all the diapers all the time, knowing they cannot be removed or altered without
intervention from the master. In this state of undress, the slave should be
forced to perform chores, which may result in them being observed by strangers.
These can be in the form of retrieving the morning paper, hanging out the
laundry, or being locked outside on an apartment balcony for a suitable length
of time. Some activities require additional clothing. A slave sent to do the
laundry in a Laundromat or apartment laundry should be dressed in too-small
shorts and a shirt that is cut short enough to ride up the back as soon as the
slave bends over. This exposes the top of the slave's plastic pants and the
slave's instinctive reaction to keep pulling the shirt down merely attracts more
Visibility need not depend on the eyes. Disposable diapers and well-worn plastic
pants can be noisy. The crackling sounds can be quite loud and attract attention
from passersby in shopping malls and airports. In addition, these materials are
noisy to take off and put on, so if your slave must change her diaper in a
public washroom it will not be possible to for her to do so discreetly.
Another element to visibility is smell. Again, adult diaper companies do not add
fragrances to their products but this is no impediment to the ambitious master.
Male slaves are especially susceptible to the torment of being sent out into
public with the sweet fragrances of scented Vaseline, baby powder and lotion
preceding her like a cloud. Of course, if desired, the slave can be made to soil
herself (laxatives and suppositories are useful) and this is the most
humiliating visibility factor of all and is very effective in crowded public
places like elevators.
Having added extra bulk, several pairs of plastic panties and perhaps double
diapers, the competent master has already addressed many concerns for
efficiency. However long trips, extended punishment periods or the deliberate
cultivation of diaper rash require innovation. In situations where the slave
must be capable of changing her diaper, such as on an aircraft, it is possible
to keep her wet and safe at the same time. Diapering her in a single adult cloth
either or disposable diaper accomplishes this. If a disposable is used, it's
plastic backing must be perforated to permit drainage. Sew the cloth diaper on
so the slave cannot remove it (you may wish to insert a butt plug before doing
so) but do use pins to take the strain off the thread. If a disposable is being
used, secure it with several around the waist passes of wide packing tape. Make
sure the tape is very snug because the diaper will sag when wet, allowing the
slave to remove and replace it. Additional cloth or disposable diapers can be
fastened over the first diaper and plastic pants added. When necessary, the
slave can be sent to change herself but she will not become dry, nor will she
have an opportunity to play with herself.
If efficiency is a concern, the use of bloomer style plastic pants may be
effective. These extend part way down the leg and while helpful in preventing
occasional leaking, are very uncomfortable, especially in summer. These pants
are often used for punishment purposes. When placed on females wearing skirts it
is almost impossible to conceal them properly.
The element of security is concerned with the ability of the slave to alter or
escape the punishment of wearing diapers. This is unacceptable and must be
prevented at all costs. There are two strategies, to secure the diaper, or to
secure the clothing, which covers it.
Securing the diaper allows the slave to be kept in the state of half-undress
described earlier. It is also useful if the slave is to be displayed to the
master's friends or is sleeping away from home and the customary bed restraints.
It allows the slave's hands to be free, permitting the assignment of chores.
Generally a chastity belt design is used with a wide crotch band secured to a
sturdy belt. The lock may be discreet or not at the master's pleasure. Such a
device increases the discomfort of the diaper, makes soiling more unpleasant and
can forestall attempts at masturbation through the diaper. It may be used on
both males and females but the former will suffer more from its effects. Among
its disadvantages are that it can tear the plastic pants and that the slave can
sometimes gain access to the genitals through a leg opening.
Securing the clothing which covers the diaper is more efficient in preventing
masturbation but can be less convenient in other areas. Shorts or pants can be
locked at the waist with a length of fine chain and a small lock. This usually
prevents the slave from putting her hands inside her diapers or playing with
herself. In the case of shorts, chains at the cuffs will prevent access from
that point. Such chains can be discreet, if necessary.
An alternative is to use pantyhose on both males and females. A stout pair of
control top should be used. The garment is placed on the slave and then a fine
wire or chain is passed through the waistband and locked. The slave cannot get
access from the leg openings and there is the additional benefit of compression
from the girdle-like panty. Males especially are humiliated by being made to
wear pantyhose. Forcing your slave to go out in public wearing only shorts over
his hosiery or alternatively wearing slacks can enhance this but also sandals
which reveal his secret to all whom happen to look down. Since there is no
plausible reason for a male to be wearing hosiery, the potential for extreme
embarrassment is high. If pantyhose are used on a female, use of the seamed
variety will be effective; bloomer style panties would add to her distress,
especially if the skirt was short.
Once the slave is securely bound in diapers and plastic pants the master's
concern turns to measures, which will aggravate the slave's condition. Excessive
fluid intake, diuretics and laxatives are the most common measures adopted. In
the case of fluids, the properly diapered slave, left alone, will have no choice
but to wet her diapers. This can be rewarding for the master especially during
the first few occasions when diapers are used. The slave fights her toilet
training all the while knowing that the inevitable cannot be forestalled.
Unfortunately, slaves usually become accustomed to wetting within a few weeks
and there is no longer any entertainment value for the master in this act. At
this stage the master may wish to insert a catheter into the slave before
diapers are applied, thus forcing true incontinence. Again, the initial results
are pleasing, since the slave is rendered into a true incontinent state.
Remember that prolonged use of catheters can cause infection and that these
devices forestall ejaculation in the male.
The decision of whether or not to force a slave to soil herself depends on the
preferences of the master, who will perform the necessary cleansing operations,
the diapers in use and whether or not the slave will be taken out in public.
Forced soiling can produce spectacular results in a novice slave and should be
experienced at least once to judge its value. Since all slaves attempt to avoid
the experience of soiling, some encouraging measures may be required. Generally
the process of moving the bowels will be enhanced with the additional fluid
intake, but if immediate results are required, laxative suppositories work
wonders. An alternative is to begin feeding bulk laxative to the slave
approximately 24 hours before diaper confinement is to begin. Each
administration of the laxative reminds the slave of the punishment to come and
the fact that she will be made to soil. This may result in whining and
begging-off on the part of the slave, which the master may wish to address once
the session has begun.
A soiled diaper on an adult gives off a distinct aroma. Unless severe
humiliation, in the form of knowledgeable attention from the public, is desired,
soiled slaves should be kept at least 15 feet aware from innocent by-standers.
One of the most rewarding aspects of forcing a slave to soil while diapered is
the knowledge that it confronts one of the major injunctions of psychological
development and causes tremendous anxiety in the slave. A wet diaper can feel
like a wet bathing suit but the adult slave will not have experienced the
sensations of a dirty diaper since being a small child. The knowledge that she
has messed herself and is unable to do anything about it until the master agrees
tortures her unmercifully.
Soiling is most traumatic for a slave during the first hour after messing.
During this time the slave will be aware of little else but the condition of her
diaper and the strange sensation of her own effluent being spread about inside
it. However beyond this initial phase, there is little to be gained by prolonged
confinement in the messy diaper unless a rash is desired or the slave is being
forced to sleep in her mess as a punishment. Cleansing operations are generally
easier if attempted as soon as possible.
Slaves will become accustomed to soiling if subjected to the procedure on a
regular basis. A master wishing to avoid this may choose to make the process
more uncomfortable or difficult with the use of butt plugs, chastity-type
retention belts, or tight clothing. Forcing the slave to soil while in
semi-public places or in the presence of friends of the master is also very
effective. In the latter case the slave may be secured outside for a time in
consideration of the comfort of the guests.
Diaper domination makes use of some equipment, which might not be found in
routine slave training situations. Fortunately this equipment is light and
portable and therefore lends itself to travel and over-night use.
The most important aspect of diaper bondage is that the slave must be rendered
helpless to adjust, change or remove her diapers. The security devices discussed
earlier are effective but are not always appropriate. The most common long-term
bondage appliances are rigid mittens, which limit the use of the hands and
Rigid mittens are available without question from medical supply stores or the
master may fabricate them. Any design that keeps the hand from being able to
grasp and prevents use of the fingers and which may be fastened securely is
acceptable. Without the use of her hands or fingers, the slave is helpless to
affect her diapered condition. She may be left alone in the house otherwise
unrestrained yet able to perform only limited functions. She may, for instance,
be able to answer the phone but dialing out is impossible. Slaves in this
condition will attempt masturbation in the form of rubbing themselves through
their diapers. Since the sensations produced in this manner merely remind the
slave of her diapered condition, it may be allowed. The slave may also be told
that evidence of masturbation (most obvious in the male) will be punished
severely. The use of only mittens to restrain a slave can produce unexpected and
yet pleasing results since the slave feels quite free but yet is prevented from
the one thing she wants most, to be out of her uncomfortable diapers.
Restrictive clothing is used most often when the slave is being put down for the
night. One-piece sleepers are most effective here since the sense of confinement
adds to the effects of having been forced to wear and use diapers. If rigid
mittens have not been incorporated into the garment they may be added to prevent
the slave from removing the garment during the night. Sleepers should cover the
feet, be cut generously in the crotch and fasten at the back of the neck. The
ability to lock the main zipper is handy but not necessary.
One of the primary advantages of diaper domination and bondage is that a "scene"
may be protracted over several days without undue wear on either the master or
the slave. Since, aside from being kept in diapers, the slave is able to
function normally; there is no need to end a scene in order to provide for
nourishment or rest. Therefore scenes can be integrated into normal life, such
as the slave being made to attend cocktail parties, sporting events, theater,
and social evenings while in diapers. Each of these situations presents the
slave with a different set of potential opportunities for discovery. Longer
outings will, of course, require a change of diapers and the diaper bag being
present is often a major embarrassment in itself.
Finally, diaper domination is most effective when the slave is kept sexually
aroused as much as possible. Oral servicing of the master will see to his needs
but the slave should be kept sexually frustrated for extended periods of time.
The unusual sensations at the genitals will help, as will enforced humiliation
(if this is arousing to the slave) but the master should be prepared to
stimulate the slave when rewards are due. At the end of the scene the slave
should be made to engage in intercourse while wearing a disposable diaper that
has been slit to allow the master access to the desired orifices or organs. This
will reinforce to the slave the pleasure/pain aspects of true diaper domination