I began my association with Sir Steffan of the Lifestyle Explorers more than 10 years ago and have enjoyed co-hosting events with him and his group. Those events continue with great regularity and diversity even though I am no longer directly involved with them. You can check out the event dates and types on their Calendar . Just select the kind of event you are interested in and the dates will be displayed for you.

    Lifestyle Explorers events have a "House Party" feel. The facility is on private property that is fenced and electric gated for your protection and privacy. This is not a business, so there is no set change for attendance and no fee for joining their group. Just follow the links on the website to fill out a survey and get your member number. You can reserve for an event online and get all the event details automatically emailed to you. Though there is no change for attending, donations are requested and appreciated. Those donations go to pay the expenses of operation with any excess going to improvements for the groups benefit. While no set amount is suggested, I would hope you would donate reasonably, say $15 or more per person. You know it is going to cost you a lot more anywhere else.

When you first arrive at the party, you drive up to an electric security gate. Sir Steffan personally comes out to greet you and insure you are on the party list before allowing you onto the property. This insures your privacy. You will be guided to parking in a privacy fenced area for discrete egress from your car to the party. You enter a foyer where an assistant will verify your information, check ID to insure you are of age and to verify your signature on a "Privacy Agreement". No information is copied from your ID for your continued protection. The Privacy Agreement indemnifies the group and attendants from harm should media or law enforcement attempt to illegally enter for the purpose of harassing or outing the attendees, or if an attendee attempts to illegally report on what they see. Discretion is assured. There is no illegal activity tolerated on the premises. If you are a first-time attendee, a "Guide" will show you around and answer any questions you might have. There is bondage furniture according to the type of event occurring, with public and private play areas, electric-winch suspension rig and a "Sybian". There is a hot tub, towels, and a separate smoker's area.

   The events include soft drinks and a snack, so you won't spend a fortune on drinks. You can bring your own alcoholic beverages as long as you are over 21 and drink responsibly. For the safety of all, Sir Steffan is quick to ask impaired people not to play. I was directly associated with these events for the last 4 years and only a lack of time has prevented me from continuing. I will be very pleased to attend as I am able. This is my favorite lifestyle party.

Your host,

Robert